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Those alone killed our relationship), but with 5 relapses during that time and with her weaning herself off the meds, the inevitable happened. She tried to quit a few times since then (cold turkey) but kept going back.
A few short weeks and the addiction is in full force.
Something really bad has to happen for her to even have a chance. As far as for me, I just can't deal with this anymore.
For some reason I can't stand to be around her anymore or even talk to her on the phone when I can hear her light up and smoke!
(seeing a loved one die due to smoking, spittin up blood, etc) I know it was wrong but I did push.
they are hard-wired into you from how you grew up it takes work on yourself, through understanding yourself as the other half of that relationship (a co-dependent, an enabler, a rescuer) with an addict. Through observing and understanding your interactions with the addict (guess what, it's all about you, and not about them at all), and where they stem from within you, that is where change occurs. But the smoke getting into a smoker's skin is no exaggeration. If I have a conversation with one of them, I always take a step back. As a former smoker, I can't stand cigarette smokers. Before then, I only ever dated one person that smoked and I absolutely hated every minute of it LOLGiven my past, it's *critical* to me that someone I'm in any type of relationship with is at least somewhat "healthy". I'm not really attracted to smokers, and my girlfriend (who stopped smoking a few weeks before we got together) knows that if she started again, we wouldn't last long, maybe a month or so before we broke up. Doesn't mean they have to be a gym rat eating sprouts but not exercising, being notably overweight, smoking etc. I'm just getting to the age where I'm seeing parents and their friends really starting to have health issues, not being able to travel or other things because they haven't taken care of themselves. Never smoked around me, always excused herself, never asked for special accommodations. I can't suggest anything you haven't though of yourself. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. Over ,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. I tried to over look it as we seemed to hit it off pretty well.Well since I only saw her once a week, I found out several weeks later how much of an addict she was.